I’ve just read your post and have also emotionally detached myself. My husband also developed neuropathy which is one of the reasons he could hardly walk although recovered to an extent when he temporarily quit the booze. His brain and personality i fear did not and he is not the man I married I’m sad to say. I have accepted I will never have that man back and to be honest I think those bridges burned long ago. Our home is my security so I’m just trying to mentally build a wall of protection around myself. I do not enter into any arguments with him and when he’s awake I constantly have to listen to him berating everything. Luckily I have a couple of close friends who I meet regularly and support me when I feel particularly
