[lostmum]

Also just to add a few points – I could take the kids to my mums but she’s just been diagnosed with cancer and it’s 30 miles away from their schools. I dont drive. The house is rented in both our names. I’ve got a gut feeling he’s using other bits of money he shouldn’t to fund his habits too. Like others going through this sort of thing – the lies, gaslighting etc is just getting too much. I’ve asked him get help or leave – he won’t.

I feel like I’m stuck.