Hi Nikki,
So sorry to hear about your partner and how his drug habit is affecting you and your family. I’m glad you are finding this forum helpful but if you would like some other help please contact us at Icarus Trust as we are a charity that supports people going through what you are dealing with -addiction in the family. One of our trained and experienced Family Friends would talk with you and let you know what other support there is available for yourself as well as your partner.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best to you.