Hi Confused mum
Welcome to the forum. Everyone here has a loved one who has addictions and also some people in recovery offering support and advice.
I wish I had all the answers, I can only sympathise with you as the mum of an adult son with alcohol and cocaine addictions.
I know it’s a very stressful position to be in, every situation is different and needs a different way to handle it. I notice Icarus trust has replied to you, also Drugfam has helped others here.
In the meantime , try and look after yourself and your well being.
It’s hard to support someone unless they start admitting they have a problem and wish to seek support.
My son is currently in early recovery and doing okay. He joined AA and CA groups, for him it’s the only thing that works. It’s such a battle for them every day. Let her know you love her but hate what addiction is doing to her and how it’s affecting the family.
Stay strong
Lx ❤