My mental health was my final straw. Plus my 11 year old being left alone with her younger siblings and told to lie. It’s abuse!
You can not fix him. You need to concentrate on you and those children.
It’s so hard, he may be successful in his recovery. In my experience he would need to stay sober from all substance and alcohol! Alcohol is a huge trigger for alot (not all) cocaine addicts.
My husband used to have a secret account, but most dealers take credit… what you can’t see is usually a red flag. He also used to pay for work colleagues lunch, petrol in exchange for cash.
Not sure if you can get on to my original post, but if can… you will see why I chose me and my babies now.
Please stay strong, always put you and your kids first. Xx