Hi Lettie,
I’m sorry that you are having a difficult time with your partner’s drug use right now. If you would like some help to answer some of your questions please contact us at Icarus Trust as we are a charity that offers support to people dealing with addiction in their family. If you get in touch one of our trained and experienced Family friends would contact you to talk things through.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best to you.