It’s co dependency and trauma attachment
It’s so hard to separate from someone who you have given so much to and to realise they don’t appreciate it at all – you end up trying to prove yourself again and again
Trying to validate it all
I promise you that you will eventually Get to the other side
Don’t beat yourself up you are exhausted and that makes everything seem so much worse
Accept that you will feel absolutely broken and helpless and sad (maybe bordering Hysterical) beyond belief – that’s all a normal part of the grieving process – it is horrendous
You don’t have to end things on a bad Note
Honesty has been missing in the relationship but maybe now you have nothing to lose you can speak truthfully to get closure
There is no right or wrong way to deal with it just so what you need to do
Clarity will come with time and what is now so painful will pass
Give yourself time x