I am devastated. I got married to my husband just over a year ago. We are both in our 50’s and second marriage. I know he had taken cocaine in the past and a week after we married as a packet fell out of his pyjama pocket when he had left them on the floor. I was literally shaking as he promised he wouldn’t do it anymore as I had found a packet previously. I now found some more this weekend as am absolutely heartbroken. He denied it at first but then finally admitted it. He says he has been doing it for 4 months but I don’t believe him. I’m not even sure that he ever stopped. He used to be such a kind loving person to me but over the last year he has been belittling me and putting me down and his personality has changed although I do see the old husband he used to be as well. I just don’t know what to do. He doesn’t contribute to the running of the house, promises me he will give me money towards bills. It was my house that he moved in too. Anyone with any advice it would be very gratefully received
