OMG do you think there is anyway out of this or are we destined to be with a coke addict or leave. The weird thing is that his brother is a recovering coke addict and alcoholic too and is just a complete waste of space that spends his days addicted to prescripted drugs sleeping and wasting his life and I said to my husband is that what you want to become. I have grown up children so its different for me but I can’t spend the rest of my life (I’m nearly 59 but feel 39) waking up every day feeling depressed and wondering why I’m not happy when I have just got married again. I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life enjoying things but he is so in debt I’m guessing because of drugs that I am paying for everything and he contributes nothing (he has moved into my house) I’m speechless when I see how awful it is for everyone x
