Hi
Sorry for lack of replies.
Have you managed to get better support?
His drinking has been horrible these last few weeks. So incredibly heavy. Just at home of evenings etc. He said on Thursday morning that he know he was drinking too much and wouldn’t drink until we go out for dinner on Sunday. . . It’s 8pm on Saturday night and he’s taken himself to bed because he can’t handle not drinking.
To be fair to him / he’s not touched a drop today and only had 4 cans yesterday (compared to the usual 8-12 – although was about 15 on Weds) so I know he’s trying
In January he did a whole month off and he’s promised me he is going to do it again this Jan
But right now I hate it. I was on verge of going to shop because I can’t stand him sitting there in silence. He’s snapping at me and I’m trying not to take it personally but it’s hard.
I can’t win.
I’ve either got a husband who is drinking himself into an early grave or Ive got a husband who is moody and not interacting at all due to his battling his desire to drink.