Hi
you are completely right. I am scared to have serious conversations because of the consequences and he is so down right now and pre Christmas etc etc. A million excuses I know. I just want it all to go away. We’ve only been married for just over a year and now I’ve found it on two occasions since then. He says he has only been using for 4 months lately but I just don’t believe him. I’m definitely not happy to accept drug use as it changes his personality. I just don’t know what to do except have a conversation with him again after new year maybe. xx