hi FF1234 im sorry to hear what your going through especially today xmas enjoy for you and your daughter just today, your not alone on here you will find that out and it shows a true kindness when people with there own problems reply and hear you.
i confronted my husband of 28 yrs a couple of months back told him he has problem an addict he denied it spent 3 weeks twisting everything to being me then he left. i was broken i went no contact like no message replying to him nothing had to, its hard i have really stood me ground i was so upset though as my son said he was going to him for xmas day so for all our sakes i spoke with him hes actually gone to dr and has been going daily for test very early days but the last 4 yrs have been hell. im wary of beleiving him i will be there but he knows i need to help myself too. hes coming for dinner today keep thinking my wish today is this time next i want my happy home back. please try enjoy today through your daughters eyes and he’ll keep till tomorrow ( boxing day) sorry had to do that.