Yes get in touch anytime. Regarding the C. A programme, we do the 12 steps. So.. Alot of addiction is from child hood trauma.. Some won’t believe this.. But there is a doctor on you tube called Dr gabor.. Who has studied this. He’s great to watch..
And on the step 4. We write down all our resentments from the past. It’s quite emotional and it can be anything. It can take weeks to do. Basically we need to get everything out. We share this with our sponsor what effect it had on us.. Basically it’s like having hot coal in your hand and if you keep hold of it/resentments. Its just gonna keep hurting you. We need to learn to let go.. And move on. So this helps with trauma. One step is we apologise in person who we harmed. This is hard but quite freeing. So this would be good for your partner with his past. Feel free to ask me any thin g or get in contact.