Hi Lozza
This must be really hard for you, especially as you equated your husbands sobriety with such potential happiness for your lives. There may be something deeper going on here that the alcohol was masking/numbing. Is it an option to try couple counselling with Relate? Does he get support from a sponsor at AA? Even though he’s been sober for 4 yrs AA is still there as a support system – just a thought.