Hi dan, we have spoken before. Unfortunately my situation hasn’t improved well it lasts so long then he sadly relapses, he’s last one before Christmas as he wasn’t spending it with me & the kids this year, he was going to have them Boxing Day instead. I have tried everything forcing him, trying to make things work and live with him he kept disappearing to use. He moved out wasn’t doing good we sorted arrangements out for him to see kids he’s a good father and they are safe with him he’s not paid for them much due to he’s addiction but when he’s sensible he has, anyway long story short. As someone suffering with addiction what is the best way for me to deal with it? Should I cut him off and only speak with him when sorting kids out and remove myself out of he’s life will this help? Or try and be supportive which I have but it’s been so hard and affects me mentally have had bad anxiety because of all this. Once again thank you for your presence on here you’ve no idea how you help us. And welcome back ????
