Hi Dan,
Firstly, thanks so much for what you said, you have no idea how much it meant to me. Here’s the thing, I actually found my real dad two months ago, I haven’t seen him since I was five years old, and, I still haven’t seen him face to face yet. The embarrassing thing is, he knows my husband has been violent to me and this is the reason he has sorted me out a property where he is (about 5 hours drive away) I am scared, but, you have honestly made me re think now and it DOES seem to be the right decision, it’s almost fate really that this has happened now. I’m really scared of being so far away but your absolutely right, it’s far enough to get away from him where I won’t be found, plus, far away from the heroin. I’ve NEVER injected it, it’s bad enough the pain you go through when it’s not in your system, or when he has stolen my methadone so I’ve had to suffer, or, find money to but it, which of course means, he then gets some too. I’ve read your message every time I’ve wondered if I have the strength to make the jump to do this,it reminds me that if I don’t use this opportunity, it’s very unlikely I’ll get another and I’ll be in this situation for the rest of my life. I have just under two weeks left when I HAVE to be there x your one amazing guy Dan, you also are wasting your life because you seem like one fantastic person. You should think about counselling too because you have a way explaining things the right way yourself. How is your world coming along as well?x