Thought that I would share an update on my story.
So today after 6 weeks of to-ing and fro-ISG my partner ended our relationship accusing me of controlling her and over reacting to her conversation about her taking coke with her cousins before Christmas.
Last week, I was the love of her life this week I’m not. In the end, she didn’t do the drug with her cousin.
She had said to her brother and ex-husband that she didn’t want to do the drug yet she can’t tell me that and holds me to ransom for me telling her that I don’t want to be with someone who does drugs. She accused me of abandoning our relationship. This just isn’t true at all.
I have a 19 year old son who has a great friendship with her, she also has a great friendship with my sons boyfriend. I’ve explained that I’m a dad and have always guided my son away from drugs, this has fallen on deaf ears, I’ve also explained that they would have to adopt if they want children in the future and any drug issues would affect their chances, she just doesn’t see this or acknowledge this, she hasn’t tried to own anything involving this situation simply projecting and deflecting everything on to me.
She wants absolutely no contact and I’ve moved out of our home and living with my brother.
We have had our issues in the last due to our challenging upbringing and feel this is the final nail in our coffin. However, all I needed to hear from her is that she didn’t want to do it.
I know I have to walk away from the woman I love, I’d be interested to know if anyone else has experienced this as I’m totally conflicted.