Ye payday is a big trigger for people, I could just get it and owe the money so this wasn’t a big trigger for me. I guess it’s limiting how many triggers you have. It’s Hard and your mind tricks you so much aswell because it’s wants the stuff.
I cam believe your soul mates and that. But this crap just ruins family’s and people. I wish I never even tried it. And that’s why I go on at my kids about the dangers of drugs even alcohol. Alcohol is as bad. People just think because its legal its OK.. I really hope he sorts himself. Get him to try and read some true story books on addiction. People who have struggled and beat it. They helped me a lot in recovery.