It’s never ending the worry isn’t it, you think of them all day long, i totally understand. If it’s affecting you’re mental health or causing you anxiety and he’s spiralling down he will only drag you down with him. He is the only person who can change he won’t do it for you only himself. I mean you walking away may be a wake up call but don’t count on it. You will feel terrible at first cutting him off if that’s what you want to do you will worry get anxiety grieve even it’s all normal but you will get stronger you will never accept it but you will come to terms with it. Distance really helps even though it’s the opposite of what you want or think you should do. I’m not sure if you have children with him, i have 3 with my ex. If I didn’t I would of walked away from the beginning and cut him off completely and moved on with my life and let him help himself you could always leave the door open if you really love him but if not your best to walk away, you can control what you choose to do in this situation and you must put must always put yourself first.
