Thank you. Yes I have got professional help to try to understand and ironically her husband was a coke addict so she really understands. I have also attended Al-anon meetings but haven’t really got much out of them to be honest and also cocaine and narcotics anonymous to try to understand from the addicts point of view and they have all been really nice to me. I’m just about to start another one. I too think that a break would do me good but I am scared that if we have a break that will be it. Although I don’t think I have any choice at the moment as he has said he wants it. I even am prepared to spend a lot of money sending him to a Narconon rehab centre but don’t think he will go as it is for 3 months and he has a responsible job. Maybe fate will decide for me but I am praying for a positive outcome xx
