It’s the hardest thing to be part of the chaos around addiction. They are so caught up in keeping their addiction hidden and alive they cannot see what is going on. For your own sanity and health maybe some time on your own would help. Try to do things just for you and see people who you love to be around. Until he recognises he has a problem it’s impossible to help. He has to get there by himself. It is so so hard being caught up in it all
