hi bella,
welcome to our conversation and I’m sorry you too have found yourself in this horrible corner.
it sounds as if he’s spending time with other users because he knows he can be more open about his drug use…. they may well be addicts or teetering on the brink of addiction themselves..
if you’re anything like me you will disapprove of their drug use and so they will hide it from us.
unfortunately these drugs do change their personality when they are constantly using them.
I’m sorry that after 26 years you are going through this. we have been together 18 years and it was the worst shock I’ve ever had discovering what my husband had been doing behind my back.
x