Hi Bella, and welcome 🙂
Once someone who uses Coke becomes addicted, you need to think of cocaine as being in charge. That person’s whole life becomes consumed with getting it, being on it, and largely trying to hide it too.
I’ve been with my husband for 16 years, married for 12, and he’s cheated, sometimes with a younger woman, but also one the same age as me, but always when high, and those other women either used or were happy for him to be doing so, whereas I wasn’t.
Frankly it doesnt say a lot for their own moral standards, especially as they knew he was married with a then very small child. One of them even tried to tell me that they were just friends as he needed someone to talk to!! What? About his wife who wont allow him to use cocaine!
Your partners brain is now wired differently, and yes, he’s sad now, but in time his brain will start to function normally again. It depends what you want, I forgave my husband because I knew deep down that all his faults and f**k ups were down to coke. I hate it with a passion now, and I really wish there was more education about this awful drug because it is glamourised, and its far from that!
Take care of yourself xx