Hi guys .. just reading your posts and your story sounds identical to mine but unfortunately i have a baby to my cocaine addict and alcoholic partner .
So let me start by introducing my experience with him ..
Been in a relationship of 8 years with him where 4 years of that went without me having any knowledge of him taking cocaine. He hid it well from me . I always knew that he occasionally but very rarely drank Alcohol and he smoked cannabis on a regular basis daily.
As i was trying my best to stop him from drinking Alcohol he was a cocaine addict and has been a user since the age of 15 and he is now in his mid 30’s.
Cut the story short .. he will not change not for me not for his parents and hasn’t changed for his daughters sake .
If anything he has got worse .
He is a liar a cheat a manipulative scum bag and a total waste .
He becomes very violent aggressive and abusive which used to leave me questioning myself .
Financially it broke us apart .. he was spending too much to feed his habit and not giving money for bills etc .
So he snorts cocaine 2 days then 3rd & 4th has a rest and the cycle starts again.
Iv done everything in my power to help him and stop but nothing worked .
For short time he will apologise and promise not to do it again but it’s all lies to win me and my trust back .
Only solution to this is get rid of him .