My husband has been taking cocaine behind my back and maybe before we even met (4 years ago). It finally came to a head as I had been testing his wee where he didn’t flush in the morning to avoid waking me since before Christmas until now. 2 weeks ago tomorrow I told him I knew he had been taking it again despite promising me a few weeks before I started testing him that he would never do it again. At first when I told him he was really angry with me blaming me etc etc then the opposite of total remorse, hating himself etc then making an oath that he will never take it again. Anyway in the last 2 weeks of him off cocaine he has been really sarcastic and nasty to me and then on Monday blew up at me in a way that I had never experienced before in my life – so belittling, accusing me of faking an illness (that I had to go to hospital for) – I wouldn’t be so nasty even to someone I despised. My question is that is this normal behaviour as mostly I have read that the partners taking cocaine are nasty, moody etc etc xx
