This is such a helpful conversation that’s being opened up. It’s so hard to know how or if you should support someone who is trying to get help with their addictions. My ex has cut me out and told me they want to do it alone and I’m not part of their life. It’s a fine line between being caring and supportive and then being viewed by them as the needy one, and them thinking it’s no wonder they ended the relationship with you. Hearing the viewpoint from the other perspective is helping, especially in reducing how hurt I feel about their actions to me. River21 I used those same words “broken” to my ex. It’s not easy to get your head around this however these forums are brilliant and it cannot be underestimated how everyones honesty makes a difference. X
