I’m sorry to hear that River21, it’s painful to hear when you’re coming from a place of care. Accepting how you feel is a biggie because some of us are fixers and we just think if they get better, I’ll be better and then we can get back to being us again. There’s no magic wand with this. Time, tears, talking to trusted friends/counsellors and taking time for you/ourselves is what we can do for us. They were nasty words and I hope you can keep sharing because it stops you feeling you’re going loopy (which you’re not) it’s the situation which is loopy. X
