Hi ladies, I’m sorry I haven’t responded to the other post recently, I haven’t had chance to come on here.
Reading that really upset me.
I just want to say this and I hope you in time will believe me.
Regardless of any addiction or struggle he may be going through it is never okay to outright abuse and attack anyone.
Take all the energy you have been using trying to deal with him and his addiction and redirect it back into yourself. Focus souly on whag is going to benifit you and your families future and if he wants to clean him self up and be a part of that future then that’s up to him but for now, do not put yourself through anymore torture.
You are a strong woman and deserve better.
The thinks he is saying to you are not true, no matter how much they hurt just deflect them and realise that his anger he is directing at you is actually anger he has for himself.
Be strong, look at try is as a fresh start.
Put yourself first and I promise you things will work out.
Stay strong and we are always here for you