I always come here and try to give advice based on the point of view of a recovering cocaine addict so sometimes I worry that it may seem like I’m making excuses for addicts.
But no matter how bad my addiction got, I always loved my partner and although I’d lie to her about money and I’d lie about working late or where I was so I could use, I would never disrespect her like this (I know the lying is disrespectful but you know what I mean).
No woman or no man in general should have to feel they are not desirable or feel worthless in any relationship and taking addiction aside these kind of things are just not okay.
Its upsets me to see how many undure these kind of relationships when I know 100% that the men saying these things to you, rely on you more than anything and without you in their lives they would be screwed.
Please, for your sake. Know your worth, do not put up with it and if he is treating you like this move on and I promise you there are good men out there who will respect you and love you the way you deserve.
I hope you are okay I really do and please keep reaching out on here because recently I’ve seen such a good community of people looking out for eachother