I’m in the same position too, my wife drinks a bottle and two minis every night and the wine is hidden until our girls are asleep. The alcohol is the main focus ill get messages to say can you go to the shop sadly I do buy it but its very hard saying no and then there is issues if I don’t. My wife’s health is affected now but she sees no issues and continues to drink. Sadly its part of her life and is affecting our relationship and family life. I’m on anti depressants due to the alcohol use which has been going on since 2014. She has done detox a few times and also a suicide attempt too and still life is tough for us all.
