Hi unfortunately I’m afraid to give you advice as over the last4yrs I feel I’ve been to hell n bk n still there…yet I can’t get it right for him. He doesn’t live with me as he’s put my youngest son under a safeguarding issue n I admire you for being able to have a relationship with your brother .I really wish I could help you but by all the resources out there I don’t seem to be able to get it right but I hope one day they both admit to themselves honestly (it’s the deceit I think that’s worse than the addiction) that they have to change noone can do it for them unfortunately. Again apologies I don’t have any real advice .
