Hey, it’s so hard isn’t it. Especially if they don’t respect your boundaries, If they are serious then you may have to distance or cut him off as addict or not he needs to respect those. I really try and see them as two people and blame the addict for certain behaviours but of course that in no way makes it acceptable but i find it makes it easier to understand the behaviour, i find again this is what works with me as I have to deal with him due to having children together. Hope this helps xx
