So sorry to hear all your stories . But the fact of the matter is that you can’t help them and that’s the bottom line .
They need months in rehab if they agree to go. Then soon as they come out all the triggers are around them , also when they say they are going to the shop/store you won’t believe them .
Addicts don’t just destroy them selfs they destroy eveyone around them .
Theres a few people on here who have gotten away from cocaine but in reality there’s millions of people who havnt and it’s destroying there and loved one’s life as we speak .
My advice is ask him to go to rehab . If he doesn’t want to go. Then you walk away and build your own life until they are ready to admit they have a problem and get the help they need .
Theres no point in checking his phone , bank account , checking his cards and notes to see if you can catch him out ? Do you think by catching him that will make him stop ? You will just send yourself crazy and h will be using again ….