Hi Treasure, welcome to the forum- everyone here has a loved one with addictions so people understand what you’re going through.
If you click the “Theresa ” thread below your story, there’s a group of us mums, all with sons at different stages in their addiction.
It helps to read the thread , and the mums are all so supportive of each other.
Cocaine is such an evil drug, it lures them in, and takes over their lives, turns them into people you don’t know.
The forum homepage offer advice and support also the Icarus trust posts here too.
My 29yr son has cocaine and alcohol addictions, the alcohol is a trigger for cocaine. About 2 years ago he was about to lose everything, job, house car, a mountain of debt, dealers at his door, it was a living nightmare.
He was ready to seek support.
He joined AA and CA groups, worked the 12 step program, got a sponsor and met others in the same position. But he also met others who were in recovery offering advice and support.
He had a few relapses but to date he is 8 months + clean and helping others now.
Every day is a battle, but it’s easier to support them when they’re trying hard. Please look after yourself in the meantime and just be there for him when he’s ready to accept help.
Take care, stay in touch here.
Lx