These leaches are very common, my now ex, as of 3 weeks ago when he just disappeared one day, has a sister who just feeds off his addiction. Takes him in, plies him with vodka and prescription pain killers , rapes his bank account for her own addictions while he’s comatose for a few weeks and then when he’s no money left she decides he needs help ! Well I’m out this time, no more me to the rescue when all hell has broken loose and the money has gone. This has been going on now for years, 4 years of my life and I’m determined this is the end, I deserve better, I need better and at this point I hate him as do my family. We have to move on when we’re feeling like this, we must put ourselves first. Even though it’s heartbreaking as the sober / clean addict is usually our perfect partner ????
