My “ex” also had a childhood friend who was an alcoholic, they went through their teens together in the rave scene taking all sorts then as they were older went on to alcohol. The friend died just before Christmas 21. Yes it hit my ex hard but if anything that has probably contributed toward this latest episode. This friend would have been a go to person when he was going on a bender, he even got locked up for DUI while with this person. There is also the sister who is just beyond appalling but What Iv learnt about all this is they will look for type, they will gravitate towards their type who gives them the permission to do their vices that we don’t. These leeches have their own gain from this, often financial or just a buddy to use with, we will never win against these people who do this, it’s truly awful.
