Hi both 🙂
I am sorry to read that we are all in similar situations. It’s just horrendous isn’t it .
Completely relate to all the scenarios , moods , lies the lot – just devastates a relationship.
It’s like an imposter in our home – I’m playing detective constantly and holding the home life up . It’s so exhausting and not the life I ever envisioned i in think I’m still grieving for the past life and in shock what I’m having to tell with even though I’m 18mths in .
Mine says he’s quit again ( as of Monday) but I just don’t buy it I’m sad to say .
Don’t have a clue- I hope you manage to get out soon and begin to start your new chapter- your strong and it will be ok – don’t ever forget that .
You too mammy Essex – I think you should go and find yourself and again it’s going to be a bumpy ride but you will be ok , I think we all have children here and that’s what we need to focus on they deserve the best from their mummies – so we owe it to ourselves .
I’m existing here on the cycle but I’m looking at what I need to do if and when the final nail goes in- where we will go, selling up etc . I have to be realistic because like you said don’t have a clue sad matter is mine probably isn’t going to change either.
Sending hugs and strength – sorry can’t offer more advise , I’m still clawing my way through this mess here xx