Thank you. Well it was great he was clean for that long time but after that it’s just worse and worse. And even right now he’s still not home. I just really don’t understand. He has been so fine since baby born and he booked and paid for a night away for us for this weekend but he just disappeared. He sent message saying how sorry he is and he’s a failure then why he’s still doing it and staying outside not coming home. I just don’t understand. There is no sign or anything, he just does it out of blue. Like you said you can’t hold hopes with them it seems.
It seems we can’t do anything but not to be too sad. I don’t have too much choice, I have a daughter and a new born baby to look after. Having the meeting for your husband sounds like a good start, it probably takes time to make progress. Mine keeps saying he can do it , meeting does nothing. But clearly he can’t control himself.
So how are you now? Assume you still live with your husband.