Hi Nobody,
Welcome to the forum and thank you for sharing your story. So sorry to read of your son’s situation with cocaine.
Margot and Danman83 have offered you some great advice.
My son is also a cocaine and alcohol addictions, but is currently in recovery thankfully.
Danman has pretty much covered all the advice, I just wanted to say this has also worked for my son.
Joined AA and CA groups, attends meetings, 12step programme with sponsor and the fellowship guys are so supportive.
He had to stop socialising with his usual mates and stop drinking.
Instead he meets them for meals, bowling . He can afford this now and he looks well.
We had 14yrs of hell in the past – but it IS in the past. I wanted you to know that sobriety is possible if he really really wants to get well.
Read the Theresa thread, it’s all mums with sons with addictions all supportive of each other too.
Most importantly take care of you wherever possible ❤️
Sending hugs
Lx