Hi would you mind if I asked you for some perspective on my situation ? Been with my husband since we were both 17 we are now 39 , 2 young children , He works away and end of august last year we had a mild argument and he said he wouldn’t come home as he needed to clear his head and there was things I had no idea about , he just refused to open up to me , come October he said he wanted a divorce as we could never be back to how we were I’ve since found out he owes a substantial amount to cocaine dealers and is addicted himself he’s lost all his money he looks drastic like a shell of himself he still won’t open up says I should move on as he’s never coming home , I’ve got ptsd through it all I’m struggling with the house and children as he gives me no money I work part time I’m now facing homelessness he just can’t see how he has caused any of this I’ve told him I would help him but he just ignores me I’m at a loss ????