I’m so sorry this is happening. We worry like mad but there is nothing we can do is there ? While we’re worrying they are destroying themselves. A few months ago I sat one night and thought is this it ? Is this my life forever now ? Watching his every move, waiting for the reek of booze on his breath. When we have split previously Iv hated alcohol, blamed alcohol for everything, this time no more, there is one person who has not taken the help from rehab and destroyed and lost everything and it’s not me. I have everything I had before him and he has exactly what he had when I met him sod all !
Yes I think of him but Iv detached myself from the “what if he goes missing” “what if he ends up in hospital again” because if not when something happens I would go running. We need to put ourselves first and going out Friday was a massive eye opener for me believe me. Try get out with friends, try to be you and put him to one side for awhile, believe me it would be worth it x