Hi Lady, thank you for sharing your story. After 7 years you would think you would know a person – right?
Do you have children- are you planning to? Do you think this is a healthy, nurturing environment to raise them?
I realise it must be difficult, as you must love this man when he’s sober. There are so many stories here from wives and girlfriends who are in similar situations.
I guess what I’m saying is Lady that only you can decide if this is the future you want together.
If you truly want to spend your life with him, I think he needs to commit himself to joining AA, get sober , and he needs to be the one to recognise that he has an addiction to alcohol and seek support to stop drinking.
I wish you well – whatever choice you make Lady.
Lx