Hi Mammy, I’m so sorry to read your story. I wish I had all the answers but I wanted to know I’m thinking of you and your family.
This drug is so evil so addictive it turns our loved ones into people we don’t recognise any more. It takes their souls, it’s not them, it’s the addiction. Deep down, they’re in there, they still love you, but the need for this mistress that is cocaine is greater.
Have you read Jamesb and Danman83 posts here? They are people in recovery telling it from the other side.
For the moment, Mammy, look after yourself and your kids. He has made his choice, I pray that he comes round his senses and seeks help. When he does this, it’s easier to support them.
Adfam homepage, Icarus trust and Drugfam all offer counselling if you need support and advice for yourself.
Sending you much love ❤️
Lx