i know danman will have a helpful insight into this but have you tried calling the cauk number yourself. they might be able to speak to your boyfriend and maybe even persuade him to come to a meeting. they might help you a little too.
cocaine can make you very, very paranoid and almost delusional really. my husband said the most bizarre and horrible things in active addiction.
please look after yourself and your baby because things can get very nasty when the discussions get heated. maybe have an escape plan in your mind if you need to get away fast.
i didn’t know my husband was on cocaine but i knew his alcohol usage was off the scale. i would literally have 999 at the ready in my pocket most weekends when he was at his worst, i never had to use it though…the threat was enough to shut him up a bit (probably because he didn’t want to be busted for drugs).
if your bloke is using frequently then his mind is completely hijacked at the moment, he just won’t be thinking straight. that’s why he won’t listen to you.
big hugs to you and your baby, you’re not alone, we’re all here for you x