Hi,
I’m so glad that you have found this forum and have had lots of good advice. Hopefully you don’t feel so alone. I’m sorry that your husband wont reach out for the support but it is important that you are supported too. You might like to contact us at Icarus Trust as we are a charity that offers help to people who are dealing with addiction in their family. We have trained and experienced people called Family Friends that you could talk with if you get in touch.
You can contact us on contact@icarustrust.org
Good luck.