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Hi I wasn’t suggesting stopping your kids from seeing there father at all , I was just giving an example of how my girls dad letting her down and disappointing her has made her put up an emotional barrier . Everyone’s situation is different and we all have different views and outcomes , sorry you feel i was in some way doing the get rid of him thing , I wasn’t, if his addiction isn’t causing distress or drama to your kids lives and he is being a gd dad then there’s no reason why he shouldn’t have a relationship with the kids x