Oh Debbie, I’m so sad, why can’t they all just wake up and realise there is so much more to life than being a slave to this drug, because that is what they are.
Aside from the devastation they reek for their nearest and dearest, they are fooling themselves that this is a good path to travel along.
You have done more than many in your position, followed through with an ultimatum. You should be proud of that. Go and live your life, be happy, don’t look back, you can’t say you didn’t try.
Sending huge love x