Hi
That was so insightful and to see it from your husband’s point of view and I feel that my husband is exactly where yours was. I think that the best thing for me to do at the moment is nothing and if he wants to contact me then we have a conversation about him going to meetings etc and that I can’t take him back unless he really wants to stop and mean it as I can’t keep putting myself through this heartbreak as it is killing me. He won’t tell his mum who he is now living with even though he has said he would but I think that was to stop me telling her. He said one time that it would break her heart to have 2 sons in the same situation. I personally think she needs to know to help him and to make him face up to the situation of breaking our marriage as she will think that it has something to do with me why we have split from when I left them in France as his behaviour was so bad that I couldn’t take anymore from him. She was furious with me and hasn’t spoken to me since. Do you think I should eventually tell her xx