So nothing has changed really, it’s gotten worse. He moved out in November to live with his girlfriend, so now I’m keeping them both. He’s definitely more manipulative and threatening, he tells me to just give him the money and he will leave me alone. I will have 10/12/15 missed calls in a matter of minutes if I don’t answer the phone. He owes my husband £900 for his mobile phone bills. My husband had a heart bypass in January and I was targeted mercilessly for money on a daily basis, looking back between £600 and £1000 per week, all my savings have gone and I’m accumulating an overdraft. He managed to get a new job in December via an Agency and they have now offered him a permanent job but he phones me every day because he has no money for fuel to get to work, electricity, food etc. He knocked the door at home an hour ago saying he had taken an overdose the previous night, had lost all his money on a payday loan, could I give him money? I said I couldn’t.I did hope he would keep his job but I don’t hold out much hope.
