Hiya ava, hope you are OK.
Well like I said to becky he won’t stop untill he admits he has a problem and is will to go to any lengths to stop.
Tell him get to some meetings. Or if he is quite bad to try a reehab.
I wouldn’t pay any of his debts. As he is relying on you now and knows you and the family will bail him out. I’d say to him, no more now that’s it.. Your on your own. You go get help now, and fast.
Don’t give him anymore money what so ever. If he needs money for food. Buy him the food ect.
He needs some tough love now as hard as it sounds. Your just gonna be doing the same thing all the time and he’s just gonna keep using and manipulating you all. That’s what addicts do.
Hope this helps